Do we like this stuff because we’re messed up? NO, WE’RE NOT! Part 2 includes my personal observations/beliefs on the topic and how our kinky sexuality can actually be a creative tool we can use to heal and thrive.
Many fetishists/kinksters ask ourselves at some point: do I like this stuff because I’m messed up? NO, YOU’RE NOT! In this Part 1 post on the subject, I deep dive into the prominent theories on how kinks and fetishes develops and what medical science actually KNOWS about how/why fetishes develop.
You’re not the only “secret switch” messaging me! Many well-known Tops secretly bottom to pros, for fear of judgement from the kink community. And it sucks that they have to feel that way.