CBT (Cock & Ball Torture)

where it really hurts

CBT (cock and ball torture) is the short-hand for a wide range of painful activities performed on the cock and/or balls, including stomping, crushing, kicking, hitting and slapping.

The psychological appeal of CBT as a femdom activity is pretty obvious: you can be the biggest, toughest man in the world, but one solid hoof in the nuts from even the smallest, daintiest woman will still drop you to your knees (and if the woman doing the kicking happens to be a tall, strong-legged FemDom, you’re really in trouble!). For men who want to experience true physical Domination from a woman, there really is nothing more authentic than CBT.

That said, it’s important to acknowledge that not all people who identify as men have cocks and balls, and some people who identify as women do have them. If you have them and you’re down to have unpleasant sensations inflicted on them, CBT is plenty of fun (well, fun for me) with or without the gendered power-play.

Toronto Dominatrix Miz Darling standing in front of a St. Andrew's Cross, ready to do some ball busting.

My World of CBT (Cock & Ball Torture)

Welcome to my playground of pain and pleasure, where I revel in dominating your most sensitive spots as your CBT Mistress. If you’re craving the rush of exquisite agony mixed with humiliating submission, explore my collection of CBT favourites. Surrender to my sadistic whims and let me push you ways that will leave you throbbing.

Please note that while some of these activities sound extreme, they don’t need to be taken to that level (for example, “ball crushing” is often just pressing weight down on the balls in a controlled, limited way, based on what a person can handle). Also, while there is always some inevitable risk involved in this kind of play, I know and practice basic safety procedures for these activities and go slow with beginners to reduce the risk of injury as much as possible.

COCK SPANKING

You’ve been a naughty boy, and that disrespectful erection deserves to be punished with a good sound cock spanking! This can be wonderfully intimate and domestic—but please note my hand only touches this area to bring pain or punishment, not pleasure or release.

Ball Crushing

Imagine your sack flattened beneath my sole while I grind side-to-side, counting the seconds until tears leak from your eyes. Or let’s play race car driver—guess what part of you’s the gas pedal!

Ball busting

I get such sadistic delight from having you chained to the St. Andrew’s cross, staring helplessly at my raised leg and flinching each time I give it a little swing. But when oh when, you wonder in pained anticipation, will the REAL kick or knee land?

Clamps & Clothespins

Tiny jaws bite down your frenulum, sack, and tip in neat little rows; I flick each one with my riding crop until you’re a chorus of high-pitched whimpers.

Human Target Practice

I used to love shooting elastic bands in school, and my aim has never been better now that I practice regularly on human targets. I stretch thick bands between my fingers, draw back, aim, and fire. Ten points if I make you flinch!

Photos for the section featuring the bondage bench and St. Andrew’s cross were taken at Studio Ludus, one of the BDSM studios I use for sessions.

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