Do we like this stuff because we’re messed up? NO, WE’RE NOT! Part 2 includes my personal observations/beliefs on the topic and how our kinky sexuality can actually be a creative tool we can use to heal and thrive.
Many fetishists/kinksters ask ourselves at some point: do I like this stuff because I’m messed up? NO, YOU’RE NOT! In this Part 1 post on the subject, I deep dive into the prominent theories on how kinks and fetishes develops and what medical science actually KNOWS about how/why fetishes develop.
You’re not the only “secret switch” messaging me! Many well-known Tops secretly bottom to pros, for fear of judgement from the kink community. And it sucks that they have to feel that way.
What’s the difference between KINK and FETISH? As a spanking fetishist who’s also into a bunch of kinks, I have strong feelings on the distinction between those two things!